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Code of Conduct / Community Guidelines

This instance is founded on the premise of “kindfulness”.

kindfulness (/ˈkīn(d) f(ə)l nəs/)

  • the quality of being mindful and kind,
  • being conscious and aware of the importance of kindness,


  • using kindness or kind acts as a way to care for yourself and others

synonyms: empathetic, considerate

see also: radical kindness

This is a term our admin coined at some point in late 2018, and finds it as a good measuring tool for interactions with folks online. With that, please know that our Code of Conduct is written with this in mind.

In addition: This instance is (obviously) Stardew Valley themed, but this does not mean that the only content you are allowed to post here is Stardew Valley related content!

You may use this instance as your main/personal/private/whatever instance. It is a “general” instance, just with a cute theme. This is also does not mean that you are disallowed from having a purely Stardew Valley account on this instance. You may do as you wish, as long as it follows our Code of Conduct.

Posting Etiquette

Part of kindfulness is consent to interactions. Some folks may not want to see certain content, and thus being mindful of this as well as kind to others we ask that you use the Content Warning (CW) function and/or the eyeball function to hide photos for the following topics:

  • Sexually explicit content (nudity, kink talk, etc.)
    • Examples of CW subject:
      • Lewd, nudity
      • Kink, BDSM
      • Photos of me in lingerie
      • Sexual frustration, masturbation
  • Politics / news
    • Examples of CW subject:
      • USPol, police brutality
      • UKPol, Brexit
      • USPol, trump
      • Political theory
  • Violence, either implied of explicit (images of guns/weapons, images with blood, written post about injuries, etc.)
  • Drugs or alcohol
  • Food, dieting, or weight discussion
  • Mental health issues (especially those that could trigger others: suicide, self-harm, disordered eating, etc.)
    • Examples of CW subject:
      • Mental health talk, anxiety
      • Mental health, suicidal ideation
      • Mental health questions, therapy
      • Mental health medications, side effects, negative
  • Spoilers to television shows or movies
  • Flashing images or videos
  • Posts that may qualify as “body horror”
  • Jump scares or other scare tactics
  • Cross-posts from other social media sites (mainly Twitter)
    • Example CW subjects:
      • Twitter cross-post (user / OP of tweet)
    • While cross-posting is not outrightly banned, if it becomes your main or only form of posting on the instance, you will be asked to move to another instance
  • Medical/Physical health (especially those others may find triggering: cancer, hospice, vomit, other bodily fluids, etc.)
    • Abortion and miscarriages are included under this
  • Sexual violence
    • Examples of CW subject:
      • Rape, sexual assault, Title IX (USPol)
      • Childhood sexual abuse (CSA)
      • Stalking, abusive relationship
      • Abusive relationship (not me), asking for help
  • Animal abuse/cruelty
  • Death
  • Hate topics (heterosexism/homophobia, racism, transmisogyny and transphobia, etc.)
  • “Meta” discussions of issues on the fediverse
    • Examples of CW subject:
      • Meta (admin/moderation)
      • Meta (pixelfed)
      • Meta (blocking)
  • Emoji spam or ASCII posts
    • This includes spelling things out with emoji letters
  • If the post is a joke, or a “shitpost” please say so!

We find it exceptionally important to be specific, but not detailed, in our CW subjects. This takes practice, and will never be a perfect science as we do not always know what will trigger others. That is okay! It is okay to make mistakes, and it is not something that will cause a ban from our instance unless it becomes a larger issue. Many topics may overlap, so please just try your best.

It is not required to use the format or even specific examples mentioned for posts of that subject matter, they are only there as a guide for those who may be unfamiliar with the CW system, and as a guide for specificity for those who are used to it but are new to this instance.

Abbreviations/Short Cuts in CW Subjects

If you like to use abbreviations, please type out the full word/phrase in the first toot and put the abbreviations next to it (i.e. “childhood sexual abuse (CSA)”, “Austrailian Politics (AUSPol)”, “suicidal ideation (sui), negative (-/neg)”, etc.) and then continue to use the abbreviation in your subject as you thread your discussion/posts.

Abbreviations are tricky and not always recognizable to users, especially new ones. Some folks on the fediverse have pinned a toot of their commonly used abbreviations, so feel free to use this method as well!

Please do not purposefully misspell words or censor words (l*ke th*s) as it bypasses the filter system in place, causing posts with words originally filtered out to sneak through.

We also ask that if others come to you to request a CW, you respond kindly and do your best to remember them—however if they are not listed specifically here, the admin is not responsible for enforcing this request. If strong enough desire is shown by a particular user or group of users, and the admin agrees, the topic may be added here in the future.

We highly encourage the use of filters for triggers that may be specific to you, or less common to the general public as it will help protect you from having to interact with or even see posts surrounding that word/topic/person.

When in doubt, use the CW and/or hide your images!


With that, we would like to add that we encourage all users to do their best with image descriptions! This can be done via that instance UI on the image, or within the text of the post itself. This is not required to be on the instance, and is also not something that would result in a ban, but please push yourself to remember to caption/describe your images (including: memes, selfies, screen captures of text, etc.). Your description does not have to be perfect or of exceptional detail and length. We only ask that you try your best. If you’re ever unsure about what to say in an image caption, just ask!

We also encourage capitalization of hashtags #LikeThis, rather than #likethis (in addition to the emoji spam/ASCII content rule) so that screen readers can properly read hashtags.

Be kind and mindful in hopes to make our instance and the fediverse a more accessible place.


An exception to the idea of “when in doubt, use a CW” would be self-promotion or asking for help. Please do not feel obligated to CW these posts. You should never feel bad about earning money through skills you have, or asking for help when you need it!

However, it may become an issue if that is the only kind of post you seem to be making, and/or you are continuously making the same post super often (spamming).

Serious Offenses

The following content is prohibited on Stardew.City and will result in an immediate removal of content, and likely a removal of your account:

  • Sexual depictions of children / pedophilia
    • A minor (or child) is someone below the age of eighteen (18) years old
    • This includes but is not limited to:
      • Drawings, photographs, videos, or writing of children engaging in sexual activity (including fictional characters)
      • Aforementioned with “aged-up” fictional child characters
      • Characters that are of age, but have an intentional child-like appearance engaging in sexual activity
      • Engaging in sexual conversations with children as an adult
        • This is not to say that if a minor has questions, you as an adult may not offer help/answers. Be respectful and understanding of boundaries laid by minors, as well as your responsibilities as an adult to not encourage or engage in sexual relationships with minors.
  • Holocaust denial
  • Nazi imagery, or other promotion of fascism/radical nationalism
    • Yes, even “ironically”
  • Promoting the oppression or discrimination against any person or groups based on race, ethnicity, nationality, sex, gender (identity or expression), sexuality/sexual orientation, disability, class, profession, body size or personal appearance, age, or religion.
  • Harassment, stalking, or threats/intimidation of other users, or encouraging others to do so
    • This includes but is not limited to:
      • Continuously trying to engage a user who has requested to end interaction(s)
      • Encouraging or inciting other users to (re)engage with another user after said user requested to end interaction(s)
      • Screen capturing or quoting a user without their express permission
      • Collecting or posting a user’s private or personal information or data without express permission
        • This includes but is not limited to:
          • Addresses associated with a user
          • A name they previously had or were associated with
          • Contact information such as a phone number or email address
          • Any of the aforementioned in relation to a partner or family member of a user
  • Intentionally spreading libel, slander, or other disinformation
    • Certain websites that tend to target others, or right-wing websites, will not count as “proof” to the admin if concerns about certain folks arise
  • Plagiarism, or art theft (posting other’s work without citation or credit, or claiming it as your own)
  • Crypto mining operations
  • Unapproved bots
    • Contact your admin for approval!
    •  Untagged:
      • Sexually explicit content
      • Gore or graphic violence

These rules apply to Stardew.City or any affiliated location (such as an offline meet up, or if you promote the instance elsewhere/are representing the instance elsewhere on the web or offline).

Reports will be reviewed and decisions will be made as soon as possible. Admins and moderators must maintain confidentiality with the identity of the reporter of the incident.

The admin reserves the right to delete a user’s content or revoke access to Stardew.City at any time or for any reason.

Any changes to the COC will be publicly posted about for users to read the changes.

Suspensions and Silences

Our list of blocked/suspended and muted/silenced instances is maintained solely by our moderation team. We follow already maintained block lists of other instances such as: kitty.town, dzuk’s blockchain list on github, and the posts of other admin’s our team trusts.

Users are absolutely encouraged to contact the admin to request a block, and/or report the instance through the moderation tools. Reporting is very useful, as it allows us to keep better track and write notes to remember what happened/why we blocked someone via the Mastodon interface rather than just keeping it in an Excel Spreadsheet (which we do also).

If users on an instance repeatedly engage in behaviors against our own COC, without appropriate reactions from the moderation team, and/or if the admin or mods of an instance engage in behaviors against our COC, the entire instance will be suspended rather than just the offending users.

Unavailable content

Mastodon generally allows you to view content from and interact with users from any other server in the fediverse. These are the exceptions that have been made on this particular server.

Media files from these servers will not be processed or stored, and no thumbnails will be displayed, requiring manual click-through to the original file:

Server Reason
humblr.social untagged nudes
piss.restaurant user report: shit posts, irony
social.illegalpornography.com untagged nudes
tavern.cafe user report: shit posts, irony
the.scream.zone user report: anti-kin
wake.st flashy art, no seizure warnings
knzk.me harassment
radical.town targeted harassment

Posts from these servers will be hidden in public timelines and conversations, and no notifications will be generated from their users' interactions, unless you are following them:

Server Reason
bikeshed.party too loud on FTL, not personal
botsin.space bots
floppy.tokyo "this instance will not block other instances unless they are breaking the law or the rules of this instance."
mirrored.social mirrored twitter accounts / bots
switter.at silenced because we are a small instance and they are large/would take over the federated timeline
humblr.social untagged nudes
piss.restaurant user report: shit posts, irony
social.illegalpornography.com untagged nudes
tavern.cafe user report: shit posts, irony
the.scream.zone user report: anti-kin
wake.st flashy art, no seizure warnings

No data from these servers will be processed, stored or exchanged, making any interaction or communication with users from these servers impossible:

Server Reason
101010.pl cryptomining, https://functional.cafe/@phoe/100544940043503194
2.distsn.org spam
2ndamendment.social free speech / alt right
albin.social corporate goals, harvesting data, no COC/rules
animalliberation.social https://social.diskseven.com/@Jo/102915609622352361
animeisgay.com free speech / alt right
anitwitter.com free speech / alt right
anticapitalist.party harassment
aria.company free speech / alt right
assortedflotsam.com against content warnings/trigger warnings (https://assortedflotsam.com/about/more)
b.9chan.lol harassment
baraag.net loli
beehub.org naizs
bitcoinadon.social crypto
bitcoinhackers.org crypto
bodybuilding.im gab
boony.space free speech / alt right
boopsnoot.gq harassment
bophadees.witches.live harassment
bsd.moe harassment
busshi.moe run by blob.cat admin,
cantos.social free speech / alt right
capitalism.party free speech / alt right
carnal-grabhub.protohype.net gab
carrot.army nazis
cawfee.club nazis (https://radical.town/@larrydavis/102347065715623593)
civiq.social gab
cliterati.club many spinster folks (gab), terfs and free speech folks
cloutfla.re racism, transphobia
cmpwn.com racism, harassment
comm.network free speech / alt right
community.highlandarrow.com free speech / alt right
counter.social free speech / alt right
cryptids.online anti kin, harassment
crypto-group-buy.com capitalist spam
cybre.space harassment, racism
cyzed.com gab
daffodil-11.org free speech / alt right
dev.civiq.social gab
develop.gab.com gab
dickkickextremist.xyz ableism
disarray.nof.st free speech
djitter.com "free speech"
donteatanimals.org admin allows terfs
ediot.social harassment
ennui.industries harassment
explosion.party free speech / alt right
fedi.vulpes.one gab friendly
fedi.z0ne.moe free speech / alt right
feminism.lgbt free speech / alt right
forum.decisiveliberty.news free speech / alt right, nazis
forum.f-droid.org free speech, not blocking gab
fosstodon.org free speech / alt right (https://radical.town/@Blakely/102389292917320641)
fourthestate.social https://mastodon.sleeping.town/@xenon/102980758375471813
framapiaf.org harassment, nazi apologism, overall bad admin (https://framapiaf.org/@midgard/102067666791863623)
freespeechextremist.com free speech / alt right
freespeech.firedragonstudios.com free speech / alt right
freespeech.host free speech / alt right
freevoice.space free speech
freezepeach.xyz free speech / alt right
functor.pro nazis
fybuk.com no admin, no COC
gab.ai gab
gabble.xyz gab
gabfed.com gab
gab.io gab
gab.polaris-1.work gab
gab.protohype.net gab
gab.sleeck.eu gab
gameliberty.club nazi memes, free speech / alt right (https://gameliberty.club/users/matrix/statuses/101461838475153841), https://gameliberty.club/users/matrix/statuses/101461886859262957
gamers.exposed free speech / alt right, no moderation
gay.nsfw.onl untagged nudes
gleasonator.com gab
glindr.org troll, transphobe, gab
gnusocial.no racism
goldandblack.xyz free speech / alt right
gorf.club free speech / alt right
gs.smuglo.li free speech / alt right
hackers.town admin "proudly" works with FBI
hagra.net racism, nazis, pedophiles
hitchhiker.social racism
homura.space harassment
honey.church free speech / alt right
hostux.social "We only block/silence foreign accounts and instances for legal reasons"
impeccable.social gab, https://todon.nl/@isolategab/102736409146250922
inditoot.com fascism
iscute.moe free speech / alt right
jorts.horse harassment
journalist.social https://mastodon.sleeping.town/@xenon/102980758375471813
jpop.club run by admin of another instance we block (hedgehoghunter.club)
kawen.space harassment
kazvam.com gab
kink.town same admin as cloutfla.re, racism, transphobia
kitsune.cafe gab friend;y
kiwifarms.cc kiwifarms
kiwifarms.is kiwifarms
kiwifarms.net kiwifarms
kneegrows.top free speech / alt right
kompost.cz shitty admin, racism
kowai.youkai.town loli
koyu.space harassment
kpop.social harassment
laevateinn.tk racism
leftlibertarian.club free speech / alt right
letsalllovela.in free speech / alt right
lets.bemoe.online pedophile defending, interacting with kiwifarms
liberdon.com free speech / alt right
libertarianism.club free speech / alt right
librem.one purism, free speech
librenet.co.za free speech / alt right
libre.video "dedicated to the principles of life, liberty, private property," "nor are we interested in censoring you for political or philosophical views"
liveview.cf https://sleeping.town/@xenon/103019823052953301
loli.estate loli
mastodon.cloud corporate owned, harassment
mastodon.host cryptomining
mastodon.loliandstuff.moe loli
mastodon.macsnet.cz admin boost spinster/gab, inefficient COC
mastodon.permaweb.io free speech (https://mastodon.technology/@swedneck/102197987563387148)
mastodon.social admin's continuous allowance of harassment from the instance, spam sign ups because they never close, and poorly moderated otherwise, and much much more
mastodon.top "We support freedom of speech, and we will not block instances or users unless there is a good reason."
masto.quad.moe free speech / alt right
masto.targaryen.house free speech / alt right
mast.wholemars.com tesla/musk fans
melalandia.tk harassment
meow.social antisemitism and free speech
minds.com free speech / alt right
misskey.io free speech / alt right
misskey.nl free speech / alt right
misskey.xyz free speech / alt right
mobile.co free speech / alt right
m.sl-network.fr ignoring reports
mstdn.foxfam.club free speech / alt right
mstdn.io federated with gab
mstdn.jp corporate owned
mu.zaitcev.nu gab adjacent
myporntv.com untagged porn
mysocial.world free speech / alt right
neckbeard.xyz misogyny
neenster.org gab
nerdica.net free speech / alt right (https://nerdica.net/profile/evergreen)
nethole.us free speech / alt right
networked.space free speech / alt right
netzsphaere.xyz free speech / alt right
niu.moe free speech / alt right
noagenda.social free speech / alt right
nomoresha.me free speech / alt right
not-develop.gab.com gab
now.kibousoft.co.jp corporate owned
npf.mlpol.net nazis, alt right, all kinds of awful
nulled.red free speech / alt right
nutt.church admin harassment / predatory
open.tube free speech / alt right
ost.social gab
patch.cx free speech / alt right
pawoo.net loli
peertube.linuxrocks.online linux rocks also blocked
peertube.sl-network.fr ignoring reports
peervideos.com nazis
pieville.net white supremacy
pikachu.rocks harassment
pixfed.com free speech / alt right
pl.765racing.com racism
pleasehug.me free speech / alt right
pleroma.angristan.xyz harassment
pleroma.cucked.me harassment
pleroma.elizafox.space harassment
pleroma.kiwifarms.net kiwifarms
pleroma.miniwa.moe free speech / alt right
pleroma.rareome.ga security fail
pleroma.site admin continuously allows for and participates in harassment
pleroma.soykaf.com free speech / alt right
pleroma.tuxcrafting.cf free speech / alt right
pleroma.wolfie.pw federates with many other instances we block
pleroma.yorha.club harassment
pl.kys.moe free speech / alt right
pl.pube.tk free speech / alt right
pl.smuglo.li loli, harassment
pl.wowana.me racism
porntoot.com untagged porn
preteengirls.biz loli
pridelands.io free speech / alt right
prout.social racism, nazis, KKK
qoto.org free speech / alt right
quey.org free speech / alt right
quitter.pw white supremacy allowed as long as it's not "illegal"
raconteur.ink user report: alt instance of a harasser
rainbowdash.net free speech / alt right
rapefeminists.network free speech / alt right
rcsocial.net free speech / alt right, gab support
redliberal.club free speech / alt right
rightmastodon.com nazis
robo.super-niche.club harassment
sapphos.be no admin
sealion.club free speech / alt right
shelter.moe free speech / alt right
shigusegubu.club free speech / alt right
shitasstits.life free speech / alt right
shitpost.beep.computer harassment
shitposter.club free speech, bigotry, https://shitposter.club/notice/14452589
shpposter.club free speech / alt right, antisemitism
sinblr.com gab
skippers-bin.com loli, racism
s.knusper-land.de racism
snabeltann.no free speech / alt right
social.au2pb.net free speech / alt right
social.beepboop.ga free speech / alt right
social.culturewar.us white supremacy
social.dsmouse.net harassment
social.foxfam.club free speech / alt right
social.guizzyordi.info free speech / alt right
social.hatthieves.es spam
social.headsca.la free speech / alt right
social.hidamari.blue free speech / alt right
social.homunyan.com loli
social.i2p.rocks free speech / alt right
social.jesuislibre.net free speech / alt right
social.librem.one allows hate speech on instance (https://social.libre.fi/notice/9iZw5AqQ5qKjgFWm5Q)
social.louisoft01.moe free speech / alt right
social.lucci.xyz free speech / alt right
socially.whimsic.al targeted harassment, abuse
socialnetwork.ninja admin is a blue lives matter cop
social.nofftopia.com free speech / alt right
social.pur.ism free speech / alt right, corporate instance
social.quodverum.com alt right
social.sakamoto.gq free speech / alt right
social.shadowkat.net admin is ableist, edgelord stuff
social.snopyta.org gab friendly, trolls
social.sunshinegardens.org harassment
social.super-niche.club harassment
social.targaryen.house harassment
social.tchncs.de harassment
social.troll.academy free speech / alt right
social.ufeff.club free speech / alt right
social.wuiwui.de free speech / alt right
society.oftrolls.com harassment
socnet.supes.com free speech / alt right
spacetime.social free speech / alt right
speakfree.world free speech
spinster.dev gab, terfs
spinster.xyz terfs, gab
stealingyour.info data mining / inflammatory url
stereophonic.space racism, ableism, bigotry
sunbeam.city racism, harassment, users associating with fascists
take.iteasy.club free speech / alt right, run by admin of sealion.club and freezepeach.xyz
targaryen.house free speech / alt right
terrafirma.space free speech / alt right
testing.pleroma.lol bigotry
thechad.zone free speech / alt right
the.hedgehoghunter.club harassment, free speech, edge lord stuff
toot.love free speech / alt right
toot.onl racism
toot.site pepe emojis, free speech / alt right, harassment
touhey.org free speech / alt right
tri.cash crypto
unsafe.space free speech / alt right
usan.us thinks Gab has "improved the fediverse"
vampire.estate loli
verge.info.tm free speech / alt right
videobit.cc peertube, porn
videofed.com insecure connection
videoshare.cc untagged porn
vipgirlfriend.xxx spam, untagged nudes
voluntaryism.club free speech / alt right
waifuappreciation.club nazis
waifu.social free speech / alt right
weeaboo.space loli
welovela.in free speech / alt right
whomst.dog harassment
wogan.im free speech / alt right
womenarestupid.site spam, harassment
woofer.alfter.us free speech / alt right
wrongthink.net free speech / alt right
x0f.org no COC, gab defenders on instance
x0r.be free speech / alt right
xn--6r8h.tk nazis
xoldie.com recommending other instances we block, now deleted/gone
yorishiro.space facism
zerohack.xyz free speech / alt right
knzk.me harassment
radical.town targeted harassment