anyway just a head of time
just bc someone wears revealing clothing or posts revealing pictures doesn't mean they want sexual attention
so pls make sure you know for sure when interacting that way if it's O K.
(for instance, not okay for me ever. pls never sexualize me)
(but boosts for selfies are always okay)
posts that are boostable (unlisted or public) are OK to boost. you may absolutely boost with additional CW, but i try to be good about it!
please do not offer unsolicted advice, unless with a CW
DMing is a-ok, but if you get gross or weird i'll probably just block you
if we've interacted regularly (mutuals or not!) feel free to ask for another form of contact (discord, PSN, Switch etc)
we silence and block many instances, i may not see you please don't take it personally!
got grievances, or think you've hurt me in some way? feel free to reach out, honestly.
personally, i prefer some privacy for before blasting to the fedi, but it's your call on either end. DM, email (email@example.com), or a post are good.
i don't really dig shitposts, edgelord stuff, or stuff drenched in irony, so you or your instance may be silenced
if i didn't ask a question, don't explain/answer something
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